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 What's love? 



Most people define love according to what they think love is, and how they express their love and feel.


Love language as we all know


The past few days, I got a chance to look deeper into the whole meaning of love, and why there are issues around this area.


Have you ever wondered why people do something and the other person feels as though that person doesn't love them, or doesn't understand them or doesn't see them, or make them feel special and loved, and speak their languages? 


These past few days, it has gotten into my head that in order to fully love someone, you have to work on the relationship; you need to put in some effort. This may come naturally, with ease. Or it may come with some argument on occasion. But don't let that discourage you, as long as it's healthy. Communication is key.


Let me break it down for you


For a person to say “I love you”, it's not only based on the amount of time you have spent getting to know each other. Rather, it’s based on what that person is willing to give you now and moving forward. And the more you get to know each other, the deeper it goes, and falling in love becomes a reality.


Your partner is willing to communicate, spend time, support you, understand you, and many other things.


And no I don't mean all that you expect is going to be 100%. Sometimes it's not, but working to maintain the higher value.


Your partner might not be aware of certain things, but if you take the time to make them understand in whatever ways you will feel loved, it can work wonders. Just try not to use a poor choice of words to bring your partner down.


Lastly, is expectations


This is something most people fight for because you expect your partner to know everything that you want, feel etc and – yeah, that feeling of wanting your partner to see things the way you see them might be important to you – but then your partner doesn't.


I can tell you this, try as much as possible to avoid expectations at all costs, but instead remain hopeful. Hoping that your partner will understand and see things you mean, hopeful that your partner won't hurt you, and whatever else.


There's nothing like a perfect relationship without effort. Good effort 👌 


Create a beautiful path to teach your kids and others, creating beautiful memories and try go understand each other on a deeper level.


If you feel your partner isn't putting any effort in resolving things, you can communicate your concerns to make sure you're okay. 


If he/she is not willing when it comes to providing those things, maybe the love isn’t really there, whether that person is aware of it or not...


To love someone is simply to first love yourself, and being willing to offer what matters to the other person and working on areas missing to complete the gap.


Thank you 😊💛

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